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The Long Game: How 20 Years in Design Taught Me What Really Matters
When I started my design career in 2002, I thought success meant perfect pixels and flawless portfolios. Twenty years later, after surviving EA Sports' infamous crunch periods, navigating multiple layoffs, and eventually managing teams across government applications, I've learned that the most valuable lessons never appeared in any job description. My journey began creating technical drawings for Wall Street signage, where every measurement had to be precise to 1/16th of an inch. That obsessive attention to detail became my foundation, but it was just the beginning.
Gut Feelings: When Stress Talks Back
Your gut does more than digest food—it talks to your brain. This article explores the gut-brain axis, revealing how what you eat can influence your mood, stress levels, and mental clarity. If you’ve ever felt “hangry” or noticed brain fog after a heavy meal, you’re already experiencing this powerful connection.
Awareness: The Key to Transforming Suffering
Embark on a journey of mindful self-discovery with this intimate journal, "Awareness is the Antidote." For years, the author grappled with the relentless cycle of overthinking, a struggle deeply rooted in personal history and intertwined with anxiety. This journal offers a profound exploration of the path towards greater self-awareness, detailing the pivotal moment of recognizing the body's sensations as anchors in the present. It delves into the critical inner dialogue that often defaults to harsh judgment, highlighting the emotional and physiological toll of such automatic negativity.
Rewiring Your Thoughts
Learn about cognitive restructuring, a powerful technique to identify and change negative thought patterns. Discover a practical 5-step guide to reframe your thinking and improve mental well-being.
The Pursuit of Optimism
Life is unpredictable, and hardship is a universal human experience. But how we navigate those difficult times can significantly impact our healing journey. This article delves into the transformative power of optimism in the aftermath of tragedy. Drawing on research and personal reflection, we explore how maintaining a positive outlook isn't about ignoring pain, but rather about fostering resilience and believing in the potential for recovery and growth. Learn practical strategies, from reframing negative thoughts to building a strong support system, that can help you cultivate optimism and find renewed hope.
The Motivation Blueprint
What truly drives human behavior? According to psychologist Abraham Maslow, the answer lies in a five-tier pyramid of needs — from basic survival to the pursuit of purpose. In this article, we explore Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs and how understanding this timeless framework can help you live more intentionally, build better habits, and unlock your full potential.
When Your Own Mind Plays Tricks on You
Stop Believing Every Thought: Rebuilding Self-Esteem. Do you constantly second-guess yourself? Discover how your mind can play tricks on your self-esteem and learn effective techniques to cultivate self-compassion and build unshakeable confidence.
Personal Development: A Motivational Journey.
Let’s embark on a transformative journey into personal development—a process that begins with honest self-awareness and evolves through deliberate action and relentless commitment. We delve into the core concepts of personal development, emphasizing the importance of shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset (Davis, 2020), and discuss effective self-soothing techniques to manage life’s inevitable challenges. Backed by insights from Miles (2025) and Perina (2009), this piece offers practical advice on setting clear goals, taking mindful breaks, and building a robust personal development plan that can enhance every aspect of your life—from relationships to career success. Embrace your journey, conquer setbacks, and unlock your full potential—onward and forward!
AI and the Human Condition
Artificial Intelligence and the human condition are intertwined, reflecting our aspirations and vulnerabilities. As technology advances, AI becomes a mirror, revealing our desires, fears, and ethical dilemmas. It challenges us to explore what it means to be human in a changing world. The rise of AI raises questions about identity and connection. By embracing these challenges, we can redefine our relationship with technology to enhance, not diminish, our humanity. Learning from AI development fosters resilience, empathy, and innovation, empowering us to face an uncertain future with courage and purpose.
Overqualified or Experienced: The Career Crossroads
In today’s job market, experience is no longer a straightforward advantage. When I began my career in the early 2000s, my challenge was proving myself without experience. Now, decades later, I’m often seen as “overqualified,” and it’s become a barrier to finding the right opportunities. This paradox speaks volumes about ageism, evolving hiring practices, and the undervaluing of seasoned professionals. In this article, I dive into the unique struggles of experienced professionals and why "too much experience" is a career issue worth rethinking.
A Journey of Struggle and Resilience
Navigating mental health can be a tough but transformative journey. I've faced dark times, learned how to cope, and now want to share my story to help others understand and find support. Mental health struggles affect both mind and body, so managing depression and anxiety involves not only awareness but practical steps.
Embracing Pain to Find the Light
Every hardship has meaning. Instead of avoiding pain, embrace it—beyond it lies growth. Face your struggles; you’re stronger than you know and can overcome anything life brings. Trust in yourself and the journey ahead.
You’ve got this
In 2017, at 42, I was overwhelmed by depression and anxiety, constantly tired and unwell, feeling no joy and barely recognizing myself. I reached a breaking point and faced a choice: give up or change. I chose change, and here’s how I transformed my mental and physical health.
Creative Leadership!
Creative leadership is about inspiring teams to think beyond boundaries and embrace new ideas. It requires vision, adaptability, and empowering others to bring their best. A creative leader not only sets direction but cultivates an environment where innovation thrives and everyone feels valued.